Youth is born with a violent release, a splash of emotions, conflicts with fathers, teachers and friends. This is how you can describe the transition period. This is the essence of children, if they change the light and the inner light. At a given statti, the nutrition of the youth crisis will be seen, how to survive and how to rob the fathers.

Also, there is a crisis in the middle age

The crisis of the age-old age is the end of the life-time period, the transition from a young school age to the age-old one, the formation of a new specialty. A child has a pragmatic to self-expression, self-realization, development, self-regulation. The given phase of life is characterized by frequent weldings with fathers, teachers, reduced interest until the beginning.

Pislya and the completion of the young people will take away the new level of self-awareness, and begin with living values ​​and practicalities. Due to the statistical data, the crisis will be repaired in the period from 11 to 16 years.

The phase є is given the most trivial. Promote the development of tempi in pink and physical development. Riznomanitnі consume vinikayut to finish quickly, ale, if the child does not know the power of their realizuvati, the stench also burns out quickly.

In children, the ear of an adult crisis is more likely to occur in the age of 10-11 years. The boys have 12-13. Yogo triviality is due to social features and minds, in which children develop. Normal situations will end up to 14-16 years. Trapez, scho period trivaє until 17-21 rock.

Important! As long as the daddy spent a lot of time staying up to the child, you can get by without a crisis. At least I’ll show it without it.

cause

One of the reasons for a pubertal crisis in an adolescent is those who are starting to present themselves with new vimogas. Because of the reason for the daily life of the child, the child does not know how to independently cope with the new difficulties and bear the responsibility for his children.

On those, as will pass the whole period, they pour in both internal and external officials. The situation can be reduced in such a way that the child becomes withdrawn, movable, and the success and assessment decrease. On the other hand, children can be confusing and irritated.

To be considered the most important factors:

  • The optics and control from the side of the father were added.
  • Psychological vice;
  • Vise from the side of the reader;
  • Conflicts with one-liners.

In Pershu Chergu, a great infusion on the psyche of the child to rob the family. Unreasonable and grip from the side of the fathers to wipe him off the child yak rivnogo. It is more likely to produce up to frequent welds, which is the result, a protracted crisis.

Prior to the internal factors, the psychological stance of the child is taken into account. Ditina started to blame herself for her bad luck, she was not mindful of the one-liners. It’s especially tense to get stricken, since it’s from nature є modest, rubbish and sympathetic. Yogo drau identity of behavior of those who feel sick. Bazhannya is seen.

Characteristics of the symptoms of a youth crisis

The crisis of the youthful viku, in the first place, is manifested in drudgery and aggression until the next day. The next step is to mend the show of the vchinki, before the non-power of the child. The child can be:

  • nervous;
  • dratіvlivim;
  • closed;
  • Let's frown.

Also, we will fix it:

  • Cigarettes and alcohol;
  • Prototype statute.

Internal conflicts and unrepentant times can lead to the fact that a young person will be able to see the world and feel better. Daddy at such an hour sprymayutsya yak threat. For more than an hour, we’ll spend more than an hour doing the pose at home, or in the virtual light.

The sign of a youth crisis is a decrease in success. Zokrema, young people are better off to cope with creative employees, creators and scientific presentations.

This manifestation is tied with a snake and an overwhelming life of values. Deyakі children write tsіkіyu tsіkavitisya absolutely protolezhny sciences, for example, music, sports, mathematics, law.

At an hour or so of young people, people vvazhayut for beautifully vilivati ​​their thoughts to someone else, ale only not to fathers. It’s not easy for a girl to have schoolchildren. Good luck! social fringes.

Important! The appointment of the cob stage of the crisis will help the daddy to grow up and stay up to the child.

Yak spіlkuvatisya s pіdlіtkom

Fathers will have a chance to take a peek at a glance with their child. The problem is that before the grown-ups there is not a small child, that the solution cannot be taken, and the specialness has not yet been formed up to the end.

Yakim in such a way that maє buti povіnka? More beautiful than the middle. In view of total control, altogether and not to admit a new age-old anarchy. To young people in Narazi Freedom is needed, ale in the clever fringes. Yak bi ditina has not seen myself, I will still need to be supported by the watchers of the fathers.

Fathers varto show interest before the life of the child. Crisis situations in an adult is a normal occurrence and spend an hour helping out on the side of a grown-up person.

It’s not easy to think about childish problems, which are too big for you, because you will need respect. It is possible to create a daddy other problem for the child - a true tragedy, as it cannot be allowed.

From the side, it’s not hard to emboss it on the pad, to wake up to see all of this room. Slid namagatisya show, what a mother and tato always come before new for help and see in any situation.

Chi can be helped to survive

Fathers are guilty of rosum, but the crisis of youth is not a pathology, it is not a psychological vision. The price is normal for growth and development. Only in childish vipadkah children can be known for psychological assistance, to give grace to one child with one-year-olds, teachers and old ones.

To improve the quality of the period, follow the basic recommendations:

  • Poshu dots dots in be-yaki conflict situations... As a child needs a special space, it is possible to live, but dad does not go into his room without knocking, but in the strings of the knitting there is order;
  • Basic rules that are guilty of being taken out by all members of the family. For example, a spіlna supper, mittya dishes as far as they go;
  • Rivni right. Varto take a meal in the solution of family nutrition and problems. Good, if the child sees himself as important and necessary;
  • Do not accept provocations and emotional splashes on the side of a young people;
  • Pidtrim for all repairs. It is not a matter of interfering with your government's interest and drowning.

if it ends

Vvazhaєya, which is normal for the end of puberty period 14-16 years. However, psychologists began to mention that in happy holiday among young people and children, the crisis began to fix and to end more and more, in a large number of cases, as it continued to grow.

Psychologists will try to fix the problem of modern standards for young people to be competitive in the plan of education, at any time they need to spend more than an hour.

At the end of the day, if a young person or a girl is young, she starts her life and lives independently, continuously. The end of the transition period can fall at 17-21 rik. Dobre tse chi ni, tell it well. If you want, it is possible to see that the decision is made for a longer period of time than for a spoky mensch for a conflict.

Yaka formula for happiness in the booth, de є pidlitok? Everything is simple - it is enough to reach the point of contact and communication. Burhlivi hormones step by step to feel, and a new one will appear in front of the daddy, the ludin has already grown up, as if it will be a good day for nadana.

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INSTITUTE OF PHYSICAL CULTURE AND SPORT

DEPARTMENT IN HOSPITALЇ

І PEDAGOGICHNOЇ PSYCHOLOGIS

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THEME: CRISE OF PIDLITKOVO VIKU

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STUDENT 1 COURSE ZFK 112 Єgorkin A.V.

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ARUCHIDI N.A.

VOLODIMIR 2013r.

The crisis of the summer season

Introduction ................................................. .............................. .......... 3

1.Крізіс ............................................... ........................................... 4

2. The crisis of the child's life.

2. 1. Characteristics of the crisis in adulthood .............................. 4

2. 2. Options for entry from crisis stations ................................. ..... 7

3.1 Friends ............................................... ............................ .. ....... ... fourteen

3.2. Parents ............................................... .................................. ... eighteen

Visnovki ................................................. ................................... ... ... 21

List of Literature ................................................ ........................... 22

Supplements ................................................. ................................... 24

Entry.

Unimportant to all the wealth of fundamental ideas, to describe the development of the psyche of people on this stage of life. In addition, as it has passed the adult period, the people have been put down to themselves and to the whole.

The crisis of the age group, one of the most pressing problems of the children of the day. Tse is tied to the vicinities of the new vimogs, which are presented before them in socially - economically reimagined. The processes that go to our state in the last two decades in the socially - economic sphereі protect health, they brought to significant yakіsnim, so іkіlky snakes in the camp of the health of the population, especially the child.

The meta of our course robotics is the development of the day-to-day crisis, the specific features of the crisis states.

1) Vivchit literature from this nutrition.

2) To glimpse the main features of the crisis stanis in the mid-season.

3) Describe the paths to the exit from the crisis stanіv.

1. Kriza.

Kriza is a tsuning of a spiritual chaos, a wickedness to the trivial dissatisfaction of the people with themselves and their relationships with their friends with the new world.

The crisis is the winners of the most fundamental, vital values ​​and consumption of the people, becoming the dominant inner life of the people and supervising strong emotional experiences.

Crises, destroying the evanescent movement of life, disorganizing, or causing shyness in the unhappy life of life, seeing people re-comprehend their life in the best way, reimagining their ability to live The success of the crisis is very important for the people, and the result of this is often the emergence of new qualities of life.

2. The crisis of the child's life.

2. 1. Characteristics of the crisis of the adult period.

The crisis of an age-related crisis є was met by people in some cases due to an increase in the number of crises.

A child's age is an important period in the state's maturation and psychological development of a child. At self-awareness there are significant changes: to appear as a mature person, to see oneself as a mature person. Vinnikє is passionate about bazhanya, if you don’t get on, then I would like to do it and grow up to grow up. Conquer your new rights, gain control of the rich spheres of your life through the control of your fathers and often go in confrontation with them. So the very podlіtku power pragnennya in spіlkuvannі with odnolіtki. Providnaya performance in the whole period grows intimate - special spilkuvannya. There is a friendship and friendship in informal groups. Winning yaskravі, ale zvіyuyut wandering one one drowning.

The main activity of the pidlitka is in the beginning, in the course of a child it’s not just opanus and accepting knowledge, but it’s filling with new messages, motives and needs, opanovunus of social interests.

Schoolyard ontogeny vіkovі period: Young school age - 7-10 years; young adult - 11-13 years old; senior adult - 14-15 years; Yunatskiy Vіk - 16-18 years old. Leather from cich period development is characterized by its own peculiarities.

One of the most common periods of school ontogenesis is the adult period, which is called transient, which is characterized by the transition from childhood to adolescence, from immaturity to adulthood.

Pidlitkovy vіk is a period of boisterous and unsettled growth and development of the body, if an intensive growth is observed, the muscular apparatus is comfortable, the process of ossification of the skeleton is trivial. Nevіdpovіdnіst, nerіvnomіrnіst rozvitku Serce i sudin and takozh posilen dіyalnіst zaloz vnutrіshnoї sekretsії often prizvodyat to deyakim timchasovim rozladam krovoobіgu, pіdvischennya krov'yanogo vise napruzі sertsevoї dіyalnostі in pіdlіtkіv and takozh to pіdvischennya їh zbudlivostі scho Mauger virazhatisya in dratіvlivostі, shvidkoї stomlyuvanostі , sealed and sertsebitty. Nervous system The food is not yet a good showroom, but it’s strong, or the teasers, and before inundation, often go to the camp of galvanizing, or, navpaki, strong excitement.

The central factor of physical development in the age of maturity is the state of maturation, which is infused into the robot of internal organs.

There is a state of pulling (often unconfirmed) and a new experience, pulling and thinking.

The peculiarities of physical development in the midst of life begin to play a role in the whole period of the correct regime of life, the growth of the regime of work, recovery, sleep and health, physical education and sports.

The reason for the psychotic development of rice is the fact that it has a progressive and at the same time super-articulate heterochromic character, stretching out to the school age. Psychophysiological functional development є at all times one of the main directions of psychic evolution.

At the pidlitkiv the tips of the scientific aim are developing, the staff like the stench flicker about the past, the current and the future, the hypotheses, the predictions will come. Yunaki have a craving for theories, formulas, etc. Skill to theorized age, for a singing sensation, for a singular specialty. Powerful theories of politics, philosophy, formulas of happiness and love are being created. The peculiarity of the youthful psyche is tied to the formal operational missions, - the change in the category of flexibility and action. The development of a logical aim will inevitably give rise to intellectual experimentation, I will make a mistake in the understanding, formulas, etc. , but not systems of action.

The crises of a child are tied with new-established new ideas, in the middle of the central place are occupied by "a little bit of maturity" and a new era of self-confidence.

The characterological peculiarity of the 10-15th child is manifested in a sharpened, pragmatic hardening in the suspension, coveted from the matured understanding of his rights and possibilities. At the first stage for children, it is specific to recognize the fact that they are growing up. Moreover, a part of the young adults will be able to wriggle around in bazhanni deprive them to solidify their right to be grown up, to seek recognition of their stature (for example, “I can get on like that, as I want to”). For some children, they are pragmatic to their stature, they are in need of the knowledge of their new possibilities, for the third ones, in good brothers, the fate of those who are on the right side of those who are grown up.

The reevaluation of their adult possibilities is to start the process of growing up to seeming independence and independence, ailing self-esteem and imaginativeness. Criticality has been increased in terms of maturity, the state of the reaction to the problems of the most popular applications, the downgrading of their age, the underestimation of the rights of the elderly, and the reasons for frequent conflicts in the context

Orієntаtsіya on spіlkuvannya with odnolіtki often manifests itself in the fear of being seen by them. Emotional well-being of children is more and more and more and more to start to lay down from that moment, as a loan in the collective, to start with the commissions and assessments of comrades. There is a tendency of grouping, which will amalgamate the scholarship before the establishment of the grouping, "brotherhoods", the readiness to recklessly follow the leader.

Intensively, the moral understanding, the manifestation, the reconsideration, the principle are being formed, like the podlitki to fix the keruvatis in their behavior. Most often they form a system of their own power vimogs and norms, they do not get lost with grown-up vimogs.

One of the most important moments in the development of a specialty is the development of self-awareness, self-assessment (SO); among children, they are interested in themselves, to the qualities of their own specialties, the need to measure themselves against others, to assess themselves, to address themselves in their feelings and experiences.

Self-assessment is being shaped by an in-depth assessment of those people, comparing themselves with others, and choosing a role in the development of progress in performance.

The transitional critical period ends with the appearance of a special special education, as it can be defined by the term "self-designation", but it is characterized by self-assimilation as a member of the suspension and of its significance in life.

2. 2. Hooks go out from crisis stanіv.

At the connection with the visceral, the support for the realization of one's potential needs to be in place before the singing group de vines will be intelligent and accepting. There may be a reference group, which organized itself spontaneously near the courtyard, in a sports club, music school, etc. So for self-realization and for the sake of society, children can come to culture to the singing of people - subculture. In some situations, if children cannot find it, the realization of their problems can lead to suicide in the country of depression. More detailed information is available in a wide distribution.

1. Subculture - sharing people with a glance and interests, not to overstep the values ​​of traditional culture, but to reopen it. The first youth subculture is not a blame. Subcultures recognize what is necessary: ​​the stench gives power, especially to young and old women, to show yourself creative, to make your own place in life, to know friends. A subculture is a part of a suspension organism. Figuratively, the hand is dumb. Yaksho її ідрізат - people who can live, but who will be an indiscriminate.

Subculture of pidlіtkіv - a cost effective system different kind I allow you to organize your life as well as internal (organize your psychological space). Itself in the whole week of development there is also a little bit of a phenomenon, as I wipe my food. A manifestation, which is meant to be in Bagatokh lands (Dodatok 1).

The most popular contemporary youth subcultures are visible:

1) Punk - tse subculture, based on addiction to punk - rock. Unsurpassed energy ruinuvannya, represented by punk, ideals of hippie bully zmeteni. The culture of punk knew its image in dance, literature, imaginative art and cinema. Punk trimmings are tightly connected with other subcultures, such as gothic and psychobiliti. Punk style - wicked scraps, shkіryaniy pіdzhak, earrings on faces and wuhah. Sometimes punks wear rockers' jackets, high-quality jeans with pipes, smartly swollen, repaired from sneakers, finished with titanium clips and T-shirts with non-standard images. Punks put their hair down at the viglyadі іroquois of any form, or to go for a fox (Dodatok 2).

2) Metals is one of the largest "informal" subcultures. Earlier, the importance of music was either to the flocks of music lovers, or to the elite proclamation of intellectuals, and to the smallest flock of gopniks. Infected to listen to the music very well. The season is even more musical layer, there are few warehouses that do not conceal spil, except for the characteristic "over-stretched" sounding. "Importance" of the current year is fashionable, equally, stick it in with a stretch, not a riot, not an underground, like it was before. Shanuvalniks of important metal rock, shvidk_snogo metal rock, black metal rock, all the stench - metal. Happy metal to love life in your satisfaction. Vvazhayut, that there are no goiters for those people, go to concerts, they can drink alcoholic drinks, and write vlashtovuvati beyki (Dodatok 3).

3) Get ready to take off your hands as a protest of mass evidence, stringiness and nesmaku. Gothic music is united with no love of different styles. The tendency of the field in summaries, mystical and mournful motives in the latest vigor and music.

I have a ready-made, unique style. Їх іmіdzh evolve into mourning, with dark colors, and sometimes with eroticism. Buvak piercing. Embellish from the middle, and the mother of the small symbols - Anki, rasp, pentagrams, etc. Sriblo - color misyatsya. The order is so self-important a role in the image of the ready: just straight dovge hair, Take in a great bundle, or taken with a gel, so it itself is created by the Iroquois. Zvvychay hairy to fart in black color, ale to develop and red, violet, bili color. Make-up is one of the main signs of the whole subculture: a ball of white powder on the face, a chorna podvodka of the eyes and lips.

The characteristics of the community subculture include non-violence, passivity and tolerance. On the view of punk and chin, people do not want to be socially active, do not look for power or any blocks in politics, and do not put some political extinguishing (Dodatok 4).

4) Rap - the middle of the bagatokh subcultural forms based on musical styles, having trimmed a wide range in Russia. The manner of vikonannya - "reading", їkh dії in the repi of the high school life of pіdlіtkіv in the negro quarters of America. The whole style has a national character, it will take an hour longer to enter the warehouse part into the subcultural polystyle education, which I will call it hip-hop culture. Priorities, krym turnip: graphite as a kind of special nasty baby, break-dance as a form of plasticity and dance, extreme vidi sports, streetball, etc. The Qia subculture is democratic enough, it doesn’t get involved in the “young street”. V great places richly young in clothes tied with turnips. If I want to fan my turnips, I’m talking about "twisting lads in wide trousers", so that I can visualize a reference from myself. Such odeag to be sold at speech markets is inexpensive. Ale, nevertheless, a part of young people is obviously oriented to hip-hop culture. Zovnishny viglyad: Wide, on a small size, more odyag. Most sports. The sport is basketball. Wear earrings and badges for embellishment. Hair is short. Bagato reperi do not live alcoholic beverages, drink beer, I want strong drugs. Reperi - not only ti, hto hearing "rap", ale і tі, hto write rap. In the main benchmark, it is not aggressive, it is quiet, but it will be secured until the "Gangsta" (Dodatok 5).

5) We call it - to resemble the word "emotsiynyy". Representatives of him kindly see their style and ideology, as they clearly wicked at the popular music. A collection of subcultures will be used for punk music with varying texts, most often have a special character and great emotional warehouse. Emo-music will be on the scale, apparently, subculture, etc. Emo is the standard of the soul, but so it is, they have their own special style, which is seen in the middle of the subcultures. Put on him, tse put on in black-horned gamma, small bandages on his hands, belts with golden plaques, a backpack with small emo badges. Emo-make-up of the eyes of a black olivtsy. Zachіski emo - the forelock is attached to one eye, black or dark brown hair color. The arrangement, for the visibility, all the while giving freedom to the choice of individuality. Buti emo means being overwhelmed in sorrow and writing vershi. I have a story about such feelings, such as sum'yattya, impulse, self-reliance, tightness, considering the peculiarities of the world’s navkolishnogo light (Dodatok 6).

2. Nayposhirenishim psychotic disorder without excess it is possible to name depression. Depresії in pіdlіtkіv i young people rіdshe potraplyayut field Zora psihіatrіv into force їh atypical bezvihodі klіnіchnoї paintings, zamaskovanostі їh proyavіv povedіnkovimi rozladami in viglyadі konflіktnostі, brutalnostі, agresivnostі, vіdhodіv s budinku, kradіzhki, getting used psychoactive rechovin (PAR), rannіy bezladnoї seksualnoї life.

In an elderly person with depression, it often turns out to be psycho-like; social behavior, Opposed to the natives, the ominous alcohol. To navigate the same understanding "depression" can be interpreted ambiguously. Look at it as a characteristic of the mood, naming the syndrome as it is mentally ill.

Pidlitkovy wick is characterized mainly by psychogenic depressions (to be generated by psychological reasons). The connection of adult depressiveness: problems with success, difficult coping with one-year-olds and seniors and others.

Depressive beds at pidlіtkіv may have a folding structure. It should be explained on the basis of information on the help of depressive symptoms, refracted through specific features, with special reactions, which are formed in response to the fact that there is no problem, it is not possible to adapt effectively to the number of students.

3. Suicide is the reaction of people to a problem that is unpleasant for them. The topic of suicidal behavior is to end up being serious and thinking about the real reasons why people are forced to voluntarily go out of life.

Suicide is coming to the fore among the causes of death in the adult life. The very obviousness of social and psychological problems can be brought to suicidal problems (violence, aggression and hardness to children, almost self-conscious).

It is not often the children who go to suicide, who may or may not know their relatives, put their hands on themselves, poison themselves with alcohol and drugs, and the syndrome of ruined respect for hyperactivity and the three deprivations, deprivation of life. Before the sleepy officials, they should be greeted by experiences, confusion with the law, absenteeism and confrontation in school, drug addiction, vaginism or fear of vagueness, hypochondria, social isolation. For some reason, the girls are advancing themselves to themselves and their success (with average health) or changes in life. At the moment of suicide, the victim is often drunk with alcohol or drugs.

4. Education, sports, creativity - in the very view of performance, you can drink children in the whole period. As a rule, be-like successes are guilty of being mentioned by fathers, or by teachers, the thought of those who value a mustache on the light and is extremely important for a child.

Reporting enough money in sports, children will master their point of view, and self-assessment is correct. To put before oneself the goals and go to one's own world, begin to live in one's own strength. So, for example, the physical appearance of building a cool and peaceful atmosphere. The creativity of the zbagachu is the inner life of the child, we will rob him all the time, we will blame him for being in harmony with himself. The creation and rejection of new knowledge can bring joy and help to self-assert.

3. Neighbors from the hour of crisis staniv.

3.1. Friends.

In the middle of the day, it is easy to merge with one-liners. Spіlkuvannya permeates all the life of children, putting on video beats and on the beginning, and on NOT the beginning of the busy, and on the day with the dad.

It’s better and more efficient with friends. Pidlitkova friendship is a foldable, often super-articulate phenomenon. A child of a pragmatic mother of a close, virgin friend and a hot friend. Name the win in one thing the similarity, intelligence and acceptance of your own power experiences and attitudes. My friend, who is in the view of hearing and seeing (and for the whole mother needs some problems and the same look at the light of people’s witnesses), is becoming a clever psychotherapist. I can help you not only more beautifully than your eyes, but you can’t help me with my powers, power values, See yourself as special. Well, one, occupying his own, maybe folding paddle right, to show disrespect and to assess the situation, is significant for both, a whole lot of vidnosin. And for the first time, you see yourself as self-sufficient, I will know the ideal and be pragmatic until you become more intelligent, if you do not care about anything, love and value. Zgadaimo old film "Live to Monday". A statement about Happiness, the boy was brought up in one phrase: "Happiness, if you are wise."

Yak is shown in American prelates, in the midst of close friends, as a rule, they are the same age as one and the same stat, to join the same class, to lie to one and the same middle. Have friends with friends stench more similar to the level of rosum development, in social behavior, success with navchannya. Trapeyayutsya th vinyatka. For example, for a serious little girl, kindly getting up at school, the most beautiful girlfriend can be a little girl galasliva, extravagant, not tricked into the hands of people, but with ropes. The addiction of a protolezhny character is explained to you by the fact that you add some shit in one add rice, which is to your very marriage.

At the friendly ones, the pads in the edges are vibrating. Ale їkh kolo spіlkuvannya is not intertwined with close friends, navpaki, wine grows more wide, lower in the front. Children at all times have a lot of knowledgeable and, more importantly, informal groups or companies. Pіdlіtkіv can unite in the group not only sympathy, but spіlіnі interest, busyness, ways of promotion, a moment spent in a great hour. Those who will be taken away from a group of children and who may be able to date, lie down from the development of a group, and enter into what is called.

Friendship stosunki - the whole thing is in each case, in some skins, from the participants in meanings, and so there are manifestations for the person. With the whole stench of offense manifested, represented by real authorities, more realism than realism, there is more real friendship. Friendship is based on justice, it’s not vimagaє like a sick, supra-natural people, it’s brutalized to its real “I”, as if you can just build your integrality in your life. From one they check the reason, to one they give the reason. All those who may not be wise, should not be forgiven, or if they are not alone, this is a catastrophe, not even a waste, it is based on the experience of the ill-feeling of being unhappy with the power of living. Bagaty people to finish one such admonition, but to beware of people all life.

Yak vinikak friendship is the price of a relationship, in which one needs to be sure, and not to be yourself? Psychologists want to describe the moment of friendship as a special phenomenon and call it creation. In vіtchiznyanіy psychologії not a lot of practice in the analysis of a constructive like a phenomenological phenomenon, a protestor to complete a report, for example, the need for spіlkuvannі in young people and they see so called social needs, to be consumed by other people. Youth is characterized as a period of turns social needs... The need for friendship, for the confirmation of the power of the vlast I to know my object (of the one) at the moment of creation. The head worry, as it characterizes it, is the recognition of the closeness of the people of the world, my own self, I will describe it as a fire, as a stribok in the wakeful interruption of life's everyday life.

Good friendship has one wondrous power - in none of them it is not a fault of consuming people. The skin of them is full of life space, psychological space, de vibudovuєtsya yogo life. A friend of yours is instructed, in a loan, as a provision, as an additional help, you should go to the same position with an explanation already explicitly. A friend does not rush to a position, win additional help її vіdrefleksuati, learn, to marvel at yourself from the side, vikoristovuyuch that part of knowledge about yourself, which is necessary for the whole. Friend dopomagaє buti is fair in relation to the vlast "I", vlsoї position. Nіkhto іnshy zrobiti can not.

As a rule, friendship is forgiving, forgiving until the end. The power of true friendship, forgiven until the end, is the manifestation of an immeasurable trust to strength I am the people of the people and build up their integrality, get involved in life. Yak only to repent of summons or condemnation, it means, in the friendship of the over-lamant, and even in the future. Maybe it’s darkened, it’s not darkened, it’s right on the person, maybe it’s, it’s picked up through the uncommon victorian.

Friendship is not moral. Once consumed in the dovir does not introduce nicoli. The whole law of summaries has long been described by the witnesses of the precursors of friendship. The managers of friendship, lyudin, virishu their life, the development of the development - the establishment of the interiorization of morality. I think that the moral nature of friendship is laid down in її bezkorlivost ї, in її bezposeredniy ("objectless") її people to people. As far as the moral categories of conscience, attitudes, the Borg are imagining existential people, then friendship is like putting people to people and concretizing existential, gratitude in the whole process, I think, due to the process of linking the folding

Friendship cannot be realized without the moral imposition of people one to one, so that the values ​​of friendship are still valued for a long time, for a long time and in one way they call themselves in a suspension of human garnish. A friend is a human being, as he will be aware of the values ​​and will be his behavior before them.

For friends, people can not make an active picture moral denunciation people.

Friendship is a wonderful people with oneself, a gift of life, a miracle, you cannot be a permanent grace, or a permanent help, or a vigode. Aristotle, Kant, Thomas Aquinas, and many great people, so I just drive those who are eager for their texts.

Psychologically, it is important that friendship gives people the strength for the awakening of the power of integrity, as it engenders and the power of your I, to take and protect your I, your rights, to survive the need for the future of your I and those who are in existence. I think that there could be some knowledge of the psychological turns of the legal identity of the people. Friendship is the process of improving social interest, right is the process of building social interest.

3.2. Fathers.

The family factor can be rightfully discerned as the one who needs it in the plan of a safe infusion on the child. The fathers often do not take the child's position in rozrahunok, do not get enough respect for them, punish and get angry with the smallest drive.

Mіtsna familyna friendship, warmth vzaєmin, adequate style vikhovannya axis is required for a long period. Praise (positive interest) is based on respect, madly, positively put to the child. Father, emotionally mind you, mind you, promptly react to the child's consumer. Tim by themselves such dads set the child's unaccountable confidence in the fact that he is needed and cited by the people, in that, that Volodya is guilty of the necessary special tasks to achieve his goals.

And the fathers of the head are in charge of the dad, and the dad are the people for the child, they know the stench, they help us. Most often, the fathers do not want to learn their own about the fact that their child has begun to grow up, they have the power of priority in life, their position in how to eat. To that the father is guilty of the mother's numb position on the way to the thoughts and glances of the child, whether to show her specialness, to the utterly intelligent boundaries of what is permitted. Now the hour of the unconcerned authority of the fathers has come without a turn; Qia tactics are accredited to the program. The authority of the fathers, the status and the concrete action will be replaced by the regulator. One of the peculiarities of an adult diet is the need for risik, which is most often dictated by the bosses of self-assertion. It’s important to accept, ale the only way to create a tserizikuvati at once with a child, ale on its territory. The very same old man can speak with a podlitkom on his move and give him the power to marvel at his wines. And if our daddy wants to take a good position, the stench doesn’t make the child feel like it. For healthy children who are old and mature, it is typical for those who are injected with fathers and one-liners to have a mutually updated character. It’s even simpler. Heads are difficult for the fathers here because it is necessary to know a grown-up (not too much) people from your child, who have their own rights and their own rights.
In spіlkuvannі with pіdlіtkom it will happen to forget about those who daddy is a man whose idea is not discussed. Wines were killing themselves with their status, but everything else was changing irrevocably: the child became independent. Now is the best way for both sides - friendship vidnosini... Dosvid dad give the yum perevag. Ale not slid їm koristuvatisya, yak zbroєyu. I need to help solve the problem and give way to the way out of the folding situations, so that it will be taken adequately, with the help, with the help. Fathers are guilty of knowing the child, sprymati light, showing on the butts. In the first place, you need to see the child of Zhartuvati. With humor and irony, wonder at those who see, not be afraid of anything, have mercy, be able to see the heat of the image. It will help you to fit in with the difficult transitions, and become a miraculous base of svitoglyad in the future, you will formulate the character and optimism. Show, like the next beast of sob, on the wickedness, I would be happy, negative moments in life and those who see it: then, what has become is unkind, but in all you can know such and such a plus. The axis here you will be unappreciated, so as you don’t look forward to admitting it, you’ll be so responsive to the situation. Feel the podlіtka shlіnі to an instant change, emotion just rewrite yo, you still don’t know how to cope with them and control them. And a person who does not show emotion is not tsikaviy and these people will not be drawn to it. Also, the basis of the spilkuvannya is the contemplation of the situation, if one of the spyprosamniks was asked by one of the spy trainers to see it in their eyes, and the confusion could not end. It is important not to forcefully impose your own rules. And even if you pidlitok zrozumіє, how can you please you, value your thoughts, if you can please you. I’ll be glad to see you before him, and not to force it, because it’s more of a cinuvati. І, having stumbled into a serious serious problem, to run after the joy and help not to friends, but to you, as to the most close people... Bezlіch doslіdzhen to bring the passes of the first pass. Dytina, is relieved by strong and unimportant proofs of father's love, there is less chance for a good self-talk, warm and friendship with other people and a strong positive image of "I".

Visnovki.

1) Having received the literature from this nutrition, we came to the office, which is an old age in one of the most common periods of human life, intensively growing and changing the body to repair a serious infusion on the psyche.

2) Having looked at the main features of the crisis stanis in the middle age, we have seen the change in values, the development of the age, and the preference for the growth and independence, its centrism of the youthful confusion of the universal breed of mass

3) Having described the paths of the way out of the crisis stan_s, we were told, so that for this purpose they could help the development of the manifestations in the psyche of the podlitka, those close to us need to learn to learn about the reference group, learn to learn with friends, learn busy with sports, music, pіdtrimuvati constructive interest pіdlіtka) and unaffected by the folding period become a friend for the child.

In such a rank, the students of our course robots are more than once utterly aware of the importance of the development of specialty for the whole development of specialties, especially for the need to continue the glorious all-purpose importance of this problem. real life pidlіtkіv on the subject of їkhnyy put up to itself and up to іnh people.

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The development of a child from a child's age to a grown-up period is supervised by periodic mental crises. Vіkovy qualification of crisis periods of the offensive:

  • odnor_chny vіk;
  • in three-chotiri rochki;
  • seven-year crisis period;
  • crises from 13 to 17 years.
Vіkovі crisis - viznachennya

Especially serious ones are involved in the events, as they occur in 3-4 rock and crisis of 17 rock.

The crisis of 4 years for children is more painless, the fathers can help their little ones survive the process. The psychology of the period is growing up, the child is very much more sophisticated, hesitates to be overwhelmed with specialness, during the whole period, you can remember to look. A native child for the fathers becomes a stranger, an immaterial human being, ready for a nepotbachuvani vchinka.


 Peculiarities of the period of the summer period

Slide to clarify, between an adult crisis and an individual for skin aging.

Characteristic signs of a crisis in children

The crisis of the age-old step has been stepped up. Fathers are even more important in revealing their first appearance. There is no need to robit the gaze, but there is nothing to be seen, but everything will go through by itself. Signs of an imminent crisis in children who are going to recover appear even up to 10 years, and they enter a problem stage at 13-17 years

Psychologists vvazhayut, well, what is the emergence of a problem, it is more hospitable to overcome crises.


 Spіlkuvannya with odnolіtki go to the first plan

With characteristic crises, you can use:

  1. Craving for the suspension of more older children or activization of spilkuvannya with one-liners.
  2. In pidlіtkіv there is a sharp craving to autonomy, independence and independence. I am vvazhaє

Please: Yakshcho daddy began to ponder, but a child can never get along with peers forever, but in the homeland it is grateful to spilkuvannya, to see, to draw interest to those on the right, which means that the problem of what has come to your life has come to your life. It's time to secretly see a psychologist and read special literature.


 The main signs of the crisis

Fathers need the nobility, for the crisis in the midst of my life, my "plus" is wiping, so I can open the soul of the undergraduate in order to formulate more and more harmony of specialness.

Main phases of the crisis period

  1. Phase 1 is called precritical or negative. The Danish period is characterized by the fact that stereotypes are being developed in the context of children. Fathers often do not mind, but see them with their children, that is why there are a lot of sales in the family.
  2. Phase 2 є the culmination point of the crisis. Most often they also go to bed in 13-15 years. Someone has a period of burhlivy, others have more spoky and myako. Phase 2 is characterized by the children’s predilection for informal culture, the stench enters into the development of the ugrupovannya or "nailed" to nasty companies.
  3. Phase 3 is called post-critical. On this stage, the formation of new messages with one-liners, with seven and with suspension is seen.

 Hoses for the development of an adult crisis

Please: Fathers need to show maximum patience and intelligence. In any case, it is impossible to enter into confrontation. It is important to set up such a psychological climate at home, in any kind of bed you will be comfortable. Guilty of seeing, how to love in the world.

Tata and mami need to be intelligent, for a sin or a daughter began to grow up, for the thought of her child needs to be rakhuvatisya.

Crises are old-fashioned twists and turns - fallen and undisturbed.

Crisis type: independence

Crises appear in the fact that the child is even more quickly seeming to himself and the family. Zvidsi and the name is “Nezalezhniy”. The characteristic rice of an area is the manifestation of the svavilla, the thought of the older generation, the zaprechennya їkh vimog.


 Independence crisis - show

More quickly and straightforwardly, show independence in 13-15 years. The crisis of 17 rocks is manifested in more primitive forms. symptomatology crisis period I will not pass on my own. Vona appear not all hour, but periodically. Fathers do not slіd zagostryuvati vіdnosini in a whole hour.

Psychology is happy to be put up to a crisis in the mind. It is important for the child to survive the rubbing, his psyche cannot fit in with the emotions, it’s not in the heart of the child. As soon as you enter into a confrontation, then the child can become withdrawn or become withdrawn.

Please: Fathers need to listen to the "cry of the soul" their child.


 Signs of a crisis

You do not need to read lectures to them, do not need to move, as with a little, general tone. In the first place, the situation is only going to get lost. Some problematic wins can only be done for the help of patience and love until your child.

Deyakі daddy practice zasosuvannya strength. For a young nigilist, he was also put in charge of provoking only negative reactions.

Crisis type: fallowness

In the middle of a crisis, as children are going through, a tendency is coming. As soon as the crisis is 4 years old for children, often for everything, showing independence and pragmatism to independence, then in the case of children there will be tendencies to fallowness.

There is such a crisis overwhelming hearing, bazhannyam buti "pid kriltsom" with the elders. Pidlitok does not need to grow up, we must be afraid of difficult situations, we cannot accept independent decisions, and we must be afraid of independence.


 Depletion crisis - signs

Such a crisis is worse than the neighboring one. The type of behavior is childish transmission, but the child becomes more infantile, the development of the child becomes more powerful.

Porady: The crisis process lays down from the grown-ups' behavior. Tati and mami, grandmothers and children are guilty, they are even more terribly.

Pam'yatati is required, but the child is intuitively copying the behavior of the grown-ups. First Batkiv - tribute the child's butt with her own behavior.

As if the daddy see, how the child vibrates the line of behavior "fallowness", the stench of guilt of all the zusil, bring his child into intercession, teach him to an independent life.


 The basis of the problems of children is contradiction

How to help a child in the Podolanny crises

To navi even more loving daddy often hesitate to have a lot of pardons for vikhovanna children. Important viprobuvannyam for bagatio є crisis 4 rocks in children. Please, the psychologist, otrimanі in the whole period, to be suitable for the podolannya crisis at the podlіtka.


 Please daddy yak go through an adult crisis
  • If the problem is simpler than virishity, how to know the compromise.
  • All members of the family are guilty of the viconuvati and the rules. Don't allow yourself to feel equal.
  • Fathers need it, navchit yourself sprymati child, as a specialty, as already vidbulasya. Virіshuyuchi sіmeynі nourishment, power up your mind.
  • Now you can cope with your emotions with a very special butt.
  • Show your interest in your problems and flocks.
  • Pidlitka need zahochuvati for success, push pidtrimku in repairs.
  • Do not need to rip your child with others, do not seem to be who are wrong for others, educate him morally in folding situations.
  • There is no need to assess the negative visibility of Yunak Chi Divchini.

The mid-term period is the time for growing up, as it is now 13 years, where the transition period is 15-16 years, crises 17 years. Vіkova psychology will describe a very important period of mental development and additional help to fathers and teachers of intelligence and subtle nuances of behavior of children.

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Timofova Maria Oleksandrivna, student of FGBOU VPO "ChDPU", Chelyabinsk [Email protected]

Peculiarities and problems of the child's crisis

Annotation of the given scientific statis reveals the problematics and particularities of the child's crisis. The main provisions of the work of L.S. Vigotsky, inoculation of an infant crisis. L.S. Vigotsky and practical teachers. On the basis of the analysis of the child's crisis and the recommendations given to teachers and parents.

In vіtchiznyanіy psihologії vіkova crisis rozglyadaєtsya yak tsіlіsne zmіna osobistostі ditini regularly vinikaє Stick stabіlnih perіodіv, obumovlene viniknennyam mainly psihologіchnih novoutvoren poperednogo stabіlnogo perіodu, SSMSC prizvodyat to ruynuvannya odnієї sotsіalnoї situatsії rozvitku i viniknennya іnshoї, adekvatnoї psihologіchnomu viglyadu ditini. The crisis of the youthful age is signifi- cantly emerging as the crisis of the young age groups. We imagine ourselves to be hospitable and we ourselves are trivial in times of crisis, to mark the turning point in the formulated specialty of the child. psychological structuresіniknennya new, as for the moment deprived of repairing the further path of their development. L.S. Vigotskiy wrote about the old age: “Itself, by its own means, through the laborious one, but at the same hour, through the broken and unsteady rivnovagy, through the development, which branched into three separate channels, ... True, it is itself important and general by its own means. The very same phenomenon, like on the road, where you go along the road, do not kill the litter, you can be a navazhchiy crossroads, sometimes throwing, for the road, you go up the hill. " We would like to consider the problems of the child's crisis and educate teachers to drive their specialties. Preceding meta: predictions of pedagogues about the particularities of overcoming a youthful crisis in schoolchildren. the teacher (and father) to face the child's crisis and to be brought to the end of the way to grow up at once with the child, in addition to helping every one to know the answer.

The hypothesis of a preschool: teachers, how to work with children, know with children L.S. Vigotskogo, attributed to the understanding of the "childish crisis", and may be more aware of the reasons and specialness of the crisis. This topic is not new. L.S. Vygotsky, setting the nutrition about the importance of the education of critical groups, outlining the need for the vision of the main new development in the psyche, social situation development, in the midst of the mid-life crisis of the brain About the price of the world in your robot "Problem of the wick." Vigotsky vidіlyav 13 times I’ll turn the point of the crisis, albeit in the most difficult post-crisis rocks (1415 years), if we are ready for new psychological education, sub-actively get rid of crises and problems by the growing physical and mental abilities of the child and the previously formed forms of their relationship with the people who want it and the types (ways) of activity. Pidlitkova crisis is trivial for a skin child in a fashionable way, in the fallowness of the bagatokh factors: respect to new grown-ups, pouring in one-licks, otochuychih, daddy. With an unpleasant situation, the crisis can drag on for a few rocky and pass and finish it unacceptably for the reader and father, as well as for the child himself. Protruding, how to become the essence of a crisis, can fail in a hospitable form, generate strong emotional experiences, destructible in the behavior of children, in their relations with adults. L.S. Vygotskiy, having respected, that a crisis will manifest sooner, the problem of social otochennya, without having to spend time, not a child.

On the cob of another dozen of life, children quickly change, as they have a more sexual desire. This is the reason for the fact that the children are actively repaired against the pro-tyle article, experimenting with all kinds of people: they are cheering, barking, disengaging. The success of the fall, the fathers bark, and the backs of the back are flooded with a new light - the light of people’s witnesses, feeling and emotions.

Bagatokh Batkiv shared fear of his children. Yak tilki htos vimovlya: "I am 14 at a time ..." Obviously, it’s not a gift for people to call it “important”: pets are often built for people who are absolutely unacceptable, albeit, on the basis of which two types of piddle crises can be seen.

So, first look the prevention of an adult crisis can be called burhlivim, yaskravim, intensive... Pidlitok is actively rebelling against all light, it’s scandalous and obvious: it’s becoming even more buzzy and sharp, when welding a hook door and when it’s around the house. They often get wine at the new ones, but at the middle parties there is a lasting guest.

Call the male type of crisis the best for a father: the child will be built like a stranger, who wants to become an educated schoolboy.

Tsya vіdkritіst is a resource for daddies to save contact and good news with podlіtkom. Emotions and a little bit - then, at once to become a picture of the light of your child. Think about them with a little podlіtkom, discuss, generously talk to them, how to see in the soul of a new person: to see a reference interest, and not to be in control, a child to share experiences.

You can think of yourself in a yogo vіtsі, razpovisti, well, you may have experienced through persistence and welding with friends, you can change your feelings and emotions. Such a message will come to you, and to your rebellion child.

another kind prevention of an adult crisis - quiet and movchazny... Such pilots experience the same spectrum of even more intense emotions of the flywheel, having conceived with a key at their room, pulling the hood over their very eyes and inserting the earpieces with. The stench can rebel, you can scream, altogether in the middle of yourself.

There is a quiet rebellion for the sake of truth in their kudi is more insecure, less bulky, and even such podlitki become closed in the edge, not to share their experiences, but to merge in the main in social fringes. Such movers are not transferable, so only gadati will be lost, as a storm is in their midst.

Fathers, whose behavior is the same, it is important to stock up on patience and to preserve that contact, which would be at the time of the crisis.

It is important to give the child's intelligence, as long as you will be in order, as well as there will be no wines, but your love will not be left behind in any of the most important factors: you just love him for those who are not guilty, because of them in shortcomings.

Do not give all the information about yourself, let him live the crisis in your midst, altogether unobtrusively guess, what your attention and support - at any moment, you can turn for help, and see something unmistakably. As soon as the child is at the sight, as the family is in the beginning, then there are no scary winks to blame.

Regardless of the type of resistance to crises, it is important to remember the rules:

    Stand up to the podlіtka yak up to the stratum of the people: cheer yo, yo feel, experiences, emotions, vibir, vchinki, navi if the stench you are building is wrong. remember to think over the inheritance, vrahovuvati without any factors and take on the visibility.

    Give it a try. Can't you read the esemeski of your robot colleague? So і with pіdlіtkom: the new є has its own special life, its own space, which is guilty of being unfinished. Do not read yo list, knock on the door, first go to yo room. Navit takі dіbnitsі allow you to see the intelligence, but you can be put up to the right to a special cordon.

    Do not znetsіnyuyte, it seems: “Did you know how to cook? Foolish woman, make peace! "Hi, not foolish: welding for food is the end of the world, but not the end of the day, but the real end of friendship. Tell the tsi experience, also light vidnosin is the main light for a teenager.

    Unique punishment and punishment. Pidlite is not a child at all, it’s in the region a lot of attacks on a special freedom and self-expression. Home-made problems, fences, stove, until it is effective, can only be used to break the crisis. With a teenager, it is so necessary, as if we were to grow up as a human being.

Yakim bi is not a buv crisis - quiet or groggy, light or important, importantly to preserve the dovirchі vіdnosini. Fathers are guilty of vrahovuvati in the specialties of their child, schob farther out the branch bulo harmony. If you want to go for a walk - do not have a walk, if you want to sit in a room - do not have to sit. Golovne, who knows, how is it at the new father’s father.

Katerina Safonova